"Marriage is a sentence,a life sentence,"I remember my husband telling me this in our initial days of courtship,and i would laugh at his sense of humour. Today,we've been married for nine whole years and there are times when I try to sit all alone and try to analyse every second of our married life. Not that I plan to do anything but at times i wonder at the type of human beings marriage can make us.
I remember we used to quarrel a lot in the beginning of our married years, that was the phase we were trying to adjust with eachother.Humans are highly adaptable beings, i mean just look at it this way, this man whom you've never seen before enters your life and claims you as his property and you don't wince about that,infact you open up evrything like he is more important than your own parents who shed their blood and sweat to bring you up.You clean his house, cook food for him, wash his clothes and smile all the time as if your life has met success you've always wanted to have.......the biggest achievement of the life time. You give your time and energy to build a home he has always dreamt of having and if you are not very careful he might accuse you for lack of love if you so much as divert your attention to your kids(after their arrival. God! Husbands are impossible at times. I retort at him then, you are like robber who has robbed my everything and after taking my everything you blame me for wearing fake jewellery.
Whatever said and done, no relation is as true as this relation. When you fall, husband will be be the first person to leap into the pit to save you from getting hurt. Husband is a person who will stay awake the whole night to allow you to sleep peacefully when you are scared about something at night. Husband is the one who will get hurt but won't hurt you ever. (Well, the tiffs and impossibilities that are free packaged gift with this thing called marriage, haha)