A kind smile, a caring heart, an honest conversation is all it takes to win somebody’s heart. But the journey into the heart of another person is not as simple as it sounds.
The journey into that heart depends on the thoughts and feelings of the other person. Yet! Your own feelings aren’t at the whim and fancy of the other person; if it happens so then you are not true to your own heart. Say, you learn that the other person doesn’t feel the way you want, should it change the way you feel? No, definitely not. If it changes then the feelings are not yours but belong to that person. Say, I am happy and I want to share my happiness with another person but that person doesn’t see it as happiness. Does it cease to be the same? It doesn’t, right? So why should any of your other feelings change?
Be it hatred, love, anger, jealousy, name any feelings one feels…..it should never change just because the other person doesn’t see it in that light.
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